My Top 5 Happiest Happenings in 2010

The 31st of December. It’s the day when we revisit all the previous days of the year. In this blog I revisit the top 5 happiest things that happened to me in 2010 as a way to thank God for all good things.

My Top 5 Happiest Happenings in 2010 (in chronological order)


1. PhD in Education

If I were to choose one word to describe my experiences so far as a PhD Education student, it would be: WONDERFUL. Literally full of wonder.

It is full of wonder because, firstly, I’m learning so many things about teaching from some of the best teachers of the university! For example, I learned the true essence of transformative learning as well as love for students from Sr. Teresa Yasa; I learned saintly reverence for and infinite kindness toward one’s students from Br. Ricky Laguda [Update: Br. Ricky Laguda would become the 22nd DLSU President in May, 2012, and the General Councilor for the Pacific-Asia Region in August, 2014]; and I learned masterful instructional planning (UbD-style) and execution from Sr. Joy Luz.

Sr. Teresa Yasa’s HRM Class AY 2009-10 Term 3

It it also full of wonder because I met several new friends who have either helped me in my need or who have invited me to be part of a very special event or concern in their lives. These include Doc Michie (the ELMD Chair when I joined the program during the third trimester of AY 2009-10); Fr. Dunstan, Chris, and Marivic (from the third trimester of AY 2009-10); and Frs. Richard and Revi (from the first term of AY 2010-11). The photo on the right is from the last meeting of my joy-filled HRM Master’s class with Sr. Teresa. (Thanks to Redg Quimno for the photo.)

2. International Lasallian University Leadership Congress

If I were to choose one word to describe my experiences in Rome and Assisi during the International Lasallian University Leadership Congress, it would be: SPIRITUAL.

It was spiritual because, firstly, it was only by divine appointment that I was able to participate in the congress. Had I been contacted just one day late (to be asked to join the original delegation), I would not have gotten my visa in time for the congress!

Rome by Night with Br. Alberto and Cecille (and Richie taking the picture)

It was spiritual because, secondly, I got to know and spend time with the Brothers at the La Salle Generalate, including the very saintly Br. Alvaro Echeverria (Superior General), Br. David Hawke (General Councilor for the Pacific-Asia Region), Br. Robert Schieler (General Councilor for the North American Region) [Update: Br. Robert would be elected Superior General of the Brothers on May 20, 2014] and Br. Alberto Barruso (who gave us a beautiful tour of Rome by night; see photo on the right). We also got to hear around 10 Brothers speak on the most important aspects of Lasallian spirituality and education.

It was spiritual because, thirdly, I gained new friends, my interactions with whom have nurtured me spiritually, including all the Brothers above, Simon (a former Brother from Nairobi), Fr. Boni and Aldrin (from Manado), Fr. Rick (from Birmingham), and, of course, Richie and Cecille from the Dasmarinas campuses,  my “partners in crime” (taking photos inside churches, pero discreetly naman).

At the Basilica of St. Francis with Cecille and Richie (taking the picture), sitting next to Giotto’s Frescoes

It was spiritual because, fourthly, I was able to visit Assisi, where I got to see the Crucifix of San Damiano (which our Lord used to communicate to St. Francis his calling to rebuild the Church), the tomb of St. Francis (where I wept unexpectedly, I think because of the overwhelming sanctity of the place), and the Basilica of St. Francis, whose walls were filled with a cycle of 28 awesome frescoes on the life of St. Francis by Giotto and his students. In the photo on the right are the third, fourth, and fifth frescoes in the cycle, titled “Miracle of the Crucifix,” “Renunciation of Worldly Goods,” and “Dream of Innocent II” (in which Francis is holding up the falling church), respectively.

I absolutely love Gothic cathedrals and have visited most of the major ones in Europe, including those in Milan (the largest), Paris, Cologne, Salisbury, and Vienna, but it was only at St. Francis that I got to appreciate the true wonder of Gothic architecture: almost throughout the mass, my eyes were raised up to the heavens.

3. University Fellow

If I were to choose one word to describe my being elected by the University Fellows to be part of their Society, it is: APPRECIATED.

This award is probably the highest award given by DLSU to one of its faculty. Who would have thought I’d one day belong to the Society of Fellows? Proof that I never thought I’d qualify, let alone be elected into it (by the Fellows themselves), was that when Angelo Unite kindly asked me for my CV in 2009 because he wanted to nominate me, it was only in 2010 that I was able to give it to him.

University Fellows’ Dinner with Brothers Jun and Ricky

What I truly appreciate about becoming a university fellow is not any benefits associated with the award but the fact that my colleagues in other colleges (my college had no fellows then) took notice of me and appreciated my work, despite my keeping a very low profile. In the photo on the right are the fellows who were able to make it to our Christmas dinner, which also turned out to be my welcome dinner (surprise!), with Brothers Jun Erguiza (DLSU President) and Ricky Laguda (DLSU Chancellor) [Update: Br. Ricky Laguda would become the 22nd DLSU President in May, 2012, and General Councilor for the Pacific-Asia Region in August, 2014.]

In the combo pic below, between the Brother Chancellor and the Vice-Chancellor for Academics, are my favorite high school math and science teachers – Ms. Carmen Cordero (Calculus) and Ms. Luz Jarumayan (Earth Science) – who inspired me not only with their knowledge and pedagogy but, most importantly, their spirituality and love. It was to them that I dedicated my University Fellow award during the July 2010 DLSU Faculty Recognition ceremony. I would not be who I am today without them. May there be more like them in schools throughout the land!

Honoring Ms Cordero and Ms Jarumayan during the 2010 Faculty Recognition Ceremony

4. Metrobank Foundation Outstanding Teacher

If I were to choose one word to describe my winning the Metrobank Foundation Outstanding Teacher award, it is: AMAZING.

If becoming a University Fellow was something I never dreamed of, all the more was becoming a Metrobank Outstanding Teacher! By God’s grace (and only by God’s grace), I am not so bad anymore as a teacher, but neither do I consider myself outstanding. It is truly amazing how the Lord chooses the weak to confound the strong. God’s grace is truly amazing!

So, firstly, my winning the award despite what I said above is truly amazing. Up to now, I still can’t believe it!

With President Noynoy Aquino, Dr. George S.K. Ty, Mr. Aniceto Sobrepena, and Mom

Another amazing thing is that my mom and I got to shake hands with the fifteenth president of the Philippines, President Benigno Simeon Cojuangco Aquino III! I had to mention my mom because, of all the members of my family, Mom was P-Noy’s most avid fan! (Needless to say, she and I voted for him.) In the photo on the right are the President himself, with Metrobank Chair Dr. George S. K. Ty and Metrobank Foundation President Mr. Aniceto Sobrepeña. We weren’t allowed to take pictures at Malacañang, and the official photographer decided to exclude my family members from this photo, but I’m glad that the camera caught a glimpse of Mom smiling beatifically in her beautiful Filipiniana attire. Amazing!

Metrobank Foundation SOT Winners with the Metrobank Foundation Family

Thirdly, the experience was amazing because I was so inspired by the remarkable stories of my fellow awardees (who are shown seated in the photo on the right, with all the kind officers and staff of the Metrobank Foundation behind us). I had extreme difficulty keeping my tears from falling while listening to their stories during a whole-day fellowship kindly organized by the Metrobank Foundation.

Another amazing thing was that, through the award money, I finally got to pay off my home (a two-bedroom condo with what is probably the best view of the Manila bay and skyline)! Thank God!

Finally, it was also amazing for me to meet the Brother Provincial, Br. Dodo Fernandez. Because I had to convey the formal letter of my award to the University President, but Br. Armin Luistro had already left for the DepEd, it was Br. Dodo who met me! I only spent a short while with him (half an hour, I think), but I was truly impressed by the kindness he radiated. [Update (Nov 9, 2011): Stumbled upon this short paragraph written about me by Br. Dodo. He is now the first Brother Visitor (head) of the Lasallian East Asia District.]

5. Road trip with my two buddies from first year high school

If I were to choose one word to describe my time with my buddies from first year high school, it would be: FUN.

Though I get to see my very good friend, Carlo (based in Jersey City), every year, it was only last July that my other good ol’ friend, Alex (based in Toronto) visited the Philippines after something like two decades! What a great time we had!

Alex stayed at my condo for a month. The three of us were all very glad that he remained virtuous throughout the time! 🙂 He also learned to sleep with the lights out, something that he wasn’t able to do since his mom passed away last year. He also helped me prepare for the Metrobank Foundation SOT semi-final judging.

The three of us took a road trip to Calatagan. It was not the best place in the world to visit, but we had the best time traveling to and from the said place and enjoying our friendship, which has spanned more than 3 decades! Unfortunately, there are no pics of the three of us together (how could we have forgotten that?), but here’s a combo pic:

Three Good Friends, Three Different Personalities

I thank the Lord for an amazing 2010. Several sad things happened, too, but the Lord was with me through the good as well as the bad times. What a truly good God, Father, and Savior we have!

Thanks, too, to my families (see below) and to my spiritual parents in Japan, and all my spiritual brothers and sisters all over the world for their prayers and love.

Part of my Natural Family: Dad, Mom and Penan
Part of my FORMDEV Family: The FORMDEV Bible Study Leaders AY 2010-11 Term 1 in front of St. La Salle’s Statue at the Marian Quadrangle
My Local Church Family in Taytay, Rizal: “Blessed are you who are poor for yours is the kingdom of God.” (Luke 6:20)
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12 thoughts on “My Top 5 Happiest Happenings in 2010

  1. Dearest Raymund,

    I was deeply touched at mentioning me as part of your blessings for 2010. You know how depressive I can be after breaking up with someone. But through your friendship and that of Carlo’s, I found love for myself. I was crying when we were on that roadtrip listening to one of our all time favorite albums, Carole King’s Tapestry. The tears suddenly gushed when I heard her sing So Far Away. That’s what I have been to you, to all of my wonderful friends and classmates from Manila Science and De La Salle. I am hoping to get over someday the sadness in my life and be happy. I have one blessing to be thankful for: my friendship with you and Carlo. Some things will never change in life. Endless. Timeless. FOREVER.

    Love,
    Alex

  2. Hi Raymund,

    If I were to synthesize this part of the blog, I would borrow Pope Benedict XVI’s words which he wrote to all those who have found and come to love and follow Jesus. The Pope reflects:
    “And only when God is seen does life truly begin.
    Only when we meet the living God in Christ do we know what life is.
    We are not some casual and meaningless product of evolution.
    Each of us is the result of a thought of God
    Each of us is willed,
    each of us is loved,
    each of us is necessary.
    Nothing is more beautiful than to be surprised by the Gospel,
    by the encounter with Christ.
    There is nothing more beautiful than to know Him
    Ant to speak to others of our friendship with Him.”

    It is truly an amazing spiritual experience that you have been immersed into in 2010. That of being personally, deeply, profoundly loved by God. What is there to further such love in others?

    Thank you for sharing the gratuitous experience of gratitude and of seeing God in everything. What more is there in store for you in the mind of God? Swim into it!

    Prayers for you in 2011.

    Sr. Teresa

    1. Thank you, Sr. Teresa, for sharing Pope Benedict’s reflection, and for continuing to be a crucial part of my life in 2011, this time as my dissertation adviser. May I make you proud.

      Blessings,
      Raymund

  3. Raymund, if there is one word to describe my thoughts after reading your blog, it would be: JOY. Seeing how you name your blessings and express your gratitude gives me joy. Being with you in our classes, listening to how you grapple with your questions and make breakthroughs with your insights, is a teacher’s joy. Reading how you find God in and through these experiences is a shared prayer of joy. Thank you!

    1. Thank you, Sr. Joy, for continuing to be a crucial part of my life in 2011 as my research models teacher and the first person to guide me in writing my dissertation proposal. May I make you proud.

      Blessings,
      Raymund

  4. Better late than never… I’ll try to transfer my comments from FB to here 🙂 Though it seems this meeting was so long ago, it certainly is still most memorable as the three of us have not been together for so long. I will always cherish it. The funny thing is that we did both recalling of the good old days and updating each other on how we are now. We tried to behave like how we were then and talked about new things as we are now. The good thing about our meetings is that I feel I grew up a little as I ended my trip. I hope we could all meet again and a little more often…

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